What to expect in a long distance relationship

So many people tend to hide from the actual truth, what happens between couples in a long distance relationship.

 It's mostly about the kind of people you both are,  and then the love you have for each other comes next but most times love is not enough to hold you two together...

  You see more beautiful people than your spouse, more God fearing people, some crazy set of people you've always fantasised about, you wanna try new things, the cravings for something different  but deep down you know the stability you want in a relationship, in building a home, the understanding can only come from your main spouse, so then in situations like this where your hubby is so far away from u to hold u down, the question is what do you do? 

  Travel 20miles to be with your spouse to get rid of the distractions? Or give in and have fun which might be the end of your relationship..or get busy with something else to help take your mind off these cravings.

  The truth is everyone at one point in their lives fall for more than one person..you being able to discipline yourself and make the right decisions is what proves your maturity.

  Your spouse is out of the country so you get a new lover to keep u comfortable till your spouse comes back🤔.

  The truth is so many persons out there are fighting with this challenge..its not just you..so make the right decision for yourself. 

    Some times we tell ourselves we don't like this guy as much as we love our spouse buh the brain being high on drugs which may be triggered by his looks, his charisma,  his personality and even the vibe he gives off ...would make u want to give it a try at the expense of your relationship. 

 

 This is just my first article on long distance relationships....the comments will encourage me to go into details and see what people go through and how they are able to stay strong while waiting for their spouse.

  Anonymous 

     Medic..